nicole james is the wife of jesse james - a marine who suffered physical and overseas. recently, she was named a 20-16 dole caregiver fellow, which honors the men and women who aid war veterans. kcrg tv-9's allison kaleta went to the james' home to see how the family manages together. 0 everyday tasks for the james family can be difficult. "everyday for him is hard, jt to get up and do a regular, you know, get up and eat breakfast." it's hard because jesse suffers from post- traumatic stress disorder after serving three tours as a marine overseas. now that he is h he, nicole together. "i mean, she's just super, patient and i couldn't get through it if i didn't have her patience to help me." this patience is what is being recognized by the elizabeth dole foundation. "they've worked really hard to ones helping the veterans, day to day, and you know, it's really hard as aaregiver, you're like the back bone for stretched too thin and you crumble then everything crumbles." with a veteran and four kids, this caregiver, without any training, hasn't crumbled. "a lot of it is th