kcrg tv-9's allison kaleta has show you care spotlight. everyday tasks for the james family can be difficult. "everyday for him is hard, just to get up and do a regular, you know, get up and eat breakfast." it's hard because jesse ffers from post- traumatic stress disorder after serving three tours as a marine overseas. now that he is home, nicole works hard to keep everything together. "i mean, she's just super, really, really, smart and patient and i couldn't get through it if i didn't have her patience to help me." this patience is what is being recognized by the elizabeth dole foundation. "they've worked really hararto help caregivers who are the ones helping the veterans, day to day, and you know, it's really hard as a caregiver, you're like the back bone for your veteran and for your family and when you get stretched too thin and you crumble then everything crumumes." with a veteran and without any training, hasn't crumbled. "a lot of it is things i've learned, you know, over the years of living with it and seeing it, some things i'v